Resentment will only keep you locked from moving forward and aligning with and receiving your hearts desires. You will keep attracting this pattern/pain until you release it with forgiveness. I get it! Why would I forgive the person who hurt me so tremendously? Think about how that feeling is serving you. Really. Take a minute.
Maybe there is a story around it. If I forgive, then... But is that story really true? No. It’s just a story you’re believing. It’s a story that’s holding you back and blocking you from your full potential.
Remember, hurt people hurt people and everyone is doing the best they can with the tools they have. Everything that upsets us is an invitation to be in a state of unconditional love. We play roles for each other to experience and remember this. It’s why we are here.
Nothing is separate. Everything is love. Think about a baby. Pure. Innocent. Curious. Loving. Trusting. Open. That’s our natural state. That’s the state that allows all the magic in. Everything else is learned.
So, If you’re ready to free yourself here is an exercise to try -
See the person in your imagination
Remember you made a contract with this person. They are playing their part to help you in grow in this life.
Say these words -
We tried. We really did. It’s not working. Let’s tear up the contract. See yourself doing this and throw it away.
Then say to them - I forgive you. I release you. I let you go. You go your way with love. I go my way with love. We don’t have to be connected anymore.
If you do this with pure intention and conviction it will set you free.